If you are still in the process of raising children, be aware that the tiny fingerprints that show up on almost every newly cleaned surface, the toys scattered about the house, the piles and piles of laundry to be tackled will disappear all too soon and that you will—to your surprise—miss them profoundly.
...My sincere prayer is that we may adapt to the changes in our lives, that we may realize what is most important, that we may express our gratitude always and thus find joy in the journey."-President Thomas S. Monson
My piles and piles of laundry
Will I really miss THIS? I would be surprised if the answer is "Yes," but I DO know that I will miss what is tied to this and every other pile of laundry...the time when my kids are home and all around me. I won't miss the feeling of never being caught up with the house... the laundry piles, fingerprints on a wall, smears on a window, Cheerios on the floor, dust here and there, but knowing that with this comes the blessing of raising and loving my 5 little ones, I'll take it all.Just last night as I was on my knees I felt the impression that this time is short and precious. I can hear my mom whisper those very words from time to time. How I would love more time with my mom. How I know she begged for more time with us 10 children. Now, from her peaceful, dust-free place in heaven, she whispers to me the same message Pres. Monson spoke in his closing remarks in the Sunday session of General Conference, Oct. '08:
"If you are still in the process of raising children, be aware that the tiny fingerprints that show up on almost every newly cleaned surface, the toys scattered about the house, the piles and piles of laundry to be tackled will disappear all too soon and that you will—to your surprise—miss them profoundly.
...My sincere prayer is that we may adapt to the changes in our lives,
that we may realize what is most important, that we may express
our gratitude always and thus find joy in the journey."
-President Thomas S. Monson
I love you my little ones, and am thankful we chose each other.
Joyful days & happy dreams!
XOXOXOXOXO,
Mom









14 comments:
You have such a unique & personal perspective because of your mother's legacy. Our experiences help us to live life to its fullest and realize how very precious it truly is. And man, that IS one big pile of laundry~~!!!! I tackle mine in baby steps, doing one 'room' at a time, so the boys together, Lex & Iz, and Kenz & Vivs. I think I would just stare at that pile or my kids would find it a fun place to jump in and play kind of like a pile of leaves :) All part of the journey & memories though!
I have that same pile over here. I'm one that enjoys laundry so I can say that YES, I will miss it.
Will I miss dirty hands on my couches or coloring on the walls?? probably not. :)
we have a black piano and I found the most perfect 18 month old foot print on the seat (which means he was climbing on top of it!) and I did have a moment of thinking, I really will miss this... I still haven't cleaned it off!
Thanks for this Becky. Our Stake president recently gave a talk to our ward along these lines and it really put things in perspective.
Like I told you today, I probably won't miss doing laundry, but I will miss so many other things that go along with having little ones! They grow up so fast, and I am trying hard to treasure it all. Did I ever tell you about how I use to pull Mattie out of her crib as she was getting bigger and bigger, just to hold her, and smell her head? I wanted to be able to remember what she was like as a little one. Thanks for your post!
Laura how on earth can you like doing laundry? I didn't know that anyone actually liked it I thought it's just something that comes with the job description. If you ever go through laundry withdrawls at your house come on over, I've got a pile just as big as Rebecca's!
Thank you, I needed to read that tonight since my laundry pile is high also and I can't let my kids into their own play room because it is so messy I am afraid they will get hurt! Frustration is common in my chest but tonight after reading your post, I felt grateful for it all!
What a great way to start my day (and my laundry) by reading your post. I often think of how fast time flies as my soon to be 11 year old is almost as tall as I am. I think about how few years it will be before he is out serving a mission. We really do need to enjoy every minute we are given with these precious children! Thanks Becky!
First, that is a small pile of laundry. A big pile comprises at least 10 loads and takes up every square inch of floor in my extra room upstairs (I showed you that room, didn't I?). Second, I feel like it is going too fast all the time. I am one of those rare, crazy people who never wants the baby to reach a new milestone (I was even this way with my first, Sid) because that is just further proof that they are growing up. I greatly fear/resent the idea of the empty nest. But I just have to have faith that those times will be great too. But nuthin, NUTHIN beats a baby. And two year olds. I always love your sentimental posts.
From the other side of the "hill". I don't miss the piles of laundry! But I do have wonderful memories of noisy halls, giggles from bedrooms... those precious moments that come when a light goes on inside one of those little heads. I love this time of life too as I watch "my babies" raising their babies and doing so much better than I did. Life is such a blessing in every stage. Enjoy yours now and I will enjoy watching from here as I remember mine time through you as I enjoy this time as well.... Thanks for the memories!!!!! j
A good reminder! Thanks. : )
This is a great perspective that I'm trying to keep now that I'm home and "refreshed" - let's hope it lasts!
This is a great perspective that I'm trying to keep now that I'm home and "refreshed" - let's hope it lasts!
I thought I'd never see the floor of my laundry room and when older women would tell me to enjoy that time, because it would pass quickly, I thought they were nuts. Well, I'm now one of those "older" women and I do miss my babies - I'd even put up with ALL the piles just to have one more day with them when they were little. When the nest is empty it is too quiet also. My grandma arms ache to hug my little darlings!
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